Introduction
Among the most honored and beloved women in Islamic history is Hazrat Khadija Razi Allah Tala Anhu, the first wife of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ and the first person to accept Islam. Her life stands as a shining example of faith, courage, loyalty, and generosity.Bibi Khadijah (RA) was not only the Prophet’s loyal wife but also a successful entrepreneur and a devoted believer, earning a special place in the hearts of Muslims everywhere. Her story is not just historical—it is spiritual nourishment for every believer seeking strength and sincerity in their faith.
Early Life and Background
Hazrat Khadija Razi Allah Tala Anhu was born into a noble and wealthy family in Makkah. She belonged to the Quraysh tribe and was well-respected for her intelligence, character, and business acumen. Khuwailid ibn Asad, her father, was a well-known trader, and she carried forward not only his fortune but also his talent for business.
Known as Tahira (the Pure One) even before Islam, she managed one of the most prosperous trade caravans in Arabia. Her honesty, generosity, and professionalism earned her admiration across Makkah. It was through her trade business that she came to know Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, then a young man known for his integrity and truthfulness.
Marriage to the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ
At the age of 40, Bibi Khadija Razi Allah Tala Anhu proposed marriage to the Prophet ﷺ, who was 25 at the time. Despite the age difference, their marriage was built on love, trust, and shared purpose. She was his only wife during her lifetime, and their union lasted for 25 peaceful years.
Their marriage was a beautiful partnership in every sense. She was his source of emotional support, financial stability, and spiritual encouragement. When he first received revelation in the Cave of Hira and returned home shaken, it was Khadija (RA) who comforted him with words that reflected her deep faith:
“By Allah, Allah will never disgrace you. You maintain family ties, bear others’ burdens, help the poor, serve your guests generously, and support the truth.”
(Sahih al-Bukhari)
First to Accept Islam
Hazrat Khadija Razi Allah Tala Anhu was the first person to accept Islam, even before any man or child. She did so without hesitation. Her heart instantly believed in the truth of the revelation. Her home became a place of comfort and safety for the Prophet ﷺ as he began spreading the message of Islam.
Her unwavering belief, especially in the early days of Islam when the Prophet ﷺ faced mockery and opposition, played a crucial role in the survival of the message. She never asked for proof or explanation; she believed because her heart was guided and because she knew the truthfulness of her husband.
Her Support in the Path of Islam
During the most difficult times of the Prophet’s ﷺ mission, Hazrat Khadija Razi Allah Tala Anhu offered her full support. She used her wealth to assist the oppressed Muslims, sponsor the dawah efforts, and relieve the burden from the Prophet ﷺ. Her business, once among the most successful in Makkah, was now dedicated to the service of Islam.
When the Quraysh imposed a social boycott on the Muslims, forcing them into the harsh valley of Shi’b Abi Talib for three years, Khadija (RA) endured hunger and hardship without complaint. Despite her old age, she stood firm, giving up her comfort for the sake of Allah.
Quranic References and Prophetic Praise
Though Hazrat Khadija Razi Allah Tala Anhu is not mentioned by name in the Quran, her rank is confirmed through the teachings of the Prophet ﷺ. Jibreel (AS) once came to the Prophet and conveyed Allah’s greetings to her:
“O Prophet of Allah, Khadijah approaches with a vessel. As she reaches you, offer her peace from her Lord and from me, and bring her glad tidings of a tranquil home in Jannah, fashioned from pearls, untouched by the burden of noise or the weariness of this world.”
(Sahih al-Bukhari)
This honor—being greeted by Allah Himself—is unmatched and highlights the status of Bibi Khadija Razi Allah Tala Anhu among all Muslim women.
Her Children and Legacy
Khadija Razi Allah Tala Anhu children’s names include Qasim, Abdullah, Zainab, Ruqayyah, Umm Kulthum, and Fatimah (RA)—the latter being the mother of the Prophet’s grandsons, Hasan and Husayn (RA). Every child of the Prophet ﷺ was born through her, as he did not have children with any of his other wives.
Her daughters grew up witnessing her strength, patience, and faith, and they carried her legacy forward with grace. Her lineage through Fatimah (RA) continues in the descendants of the Prophet ﷺ, adding to her eternal honor.
Death and the Year of Sorrow
Hazrat Khadija Razi Allah Tala Anhu passed away in the 10th year of Prophethood, shortly after the end of the boycott. Her death broke the heart of the Prophet ﷺ, and that year came to be known as the Year of Sorrow (Aam al-Huzn), as he also lost his uncle Abu Talib during the same period.
She was buried in Jannat al-Mu’alla in Makkah. Though her grave remains unmarked out of respect and tradition, her memory lives in the hearts of Muslims to this day.
Lessons from Her Life
The life of Hazrat Khadija Razi Allah Tala Anhu offers timeless lessons for all Muslims:
- Faith in the unseen: She believed in the message before any miracle or public proof.
- Support for Dawah: She used her wealth, home, and strength to serve Islam.
- Respect in marriage: Her relationship with the Prophet ﷺ was based on love, mutual respect, and shared purpose.
- Perseverance in trials: She remained steadfast through trials, boycotts, and social pressure.
- Role of Muslim women: Her story is a powerful reminder that women have always played crucial roles in the development of Islam.
Conclusion
Hazrat Khadija Razi Allah Tala Anho was more than the wife of the Prophet ﷺ—she was his partner, his supporter, and his comfort. Her life remains a model of true devotion, sacrifice, and strength. She set the standard for what it means to be a believer, a wife, a mother, and a servant of Allah.
May we learn from her sincerity, generosity, and unshakable faith. May Allah be pleased with her and grant her the highest place in Jannah. Let’s strive to act upon this Sunnah—to support the truth even when it is hard and to hold fast to faith when the world seems uncertain.
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